Your old life no longer fits.
Who are you becoming?
For women in midlife ready to stop doubting and build their next chapter with clarity and direction.
Something inside you has awakened
Maybe it was loss. Illness. Burnout. Menopause. Separation.
Or the edge of a new chapter.
Something stirred. You can't go back.
You sit in meetings feeling like you're watching from outside.
The role you've been playing feels like a costume that doesn't fit anymore.
You can't fake enthusiasm anymore.
Small talk exhausts you. You say "I'm fine" but inside you're screaming.
Decisions feel paralyzing—even simple ones.
You lie awake at 3 AM questioning everything—your relationships, your work, your direction.
You glimpse possibilities of a brighter future — but fear rushes in.
Who would you be if you chose that? What would people think? So you stay stuck.
You second-guess everything. Ask everyone else's opinion first.
You stay where it doesn't fit because you're afraid to choose something new.
If you stay here too long, the numbness sets in.
Life loses color. Your spark fades.
You don't want to fix your old life and you're not meant just to cope.
You want to build a new one.
You're longing for:
- Waking up with direction and excitement for the day ahead
- Making decisions without second-guessing
- Feeling at home in your skin
- Trusting yourself again
- Living authentically—no more pretending
- Building a life that actually fits
- Living wholeheartedly
- Feeling free—from old roles and expectations
- Being seen for who you truly are
- Shining your light without holding back
But part of you hesitates.
Afraid to trust. Afraid to choose. Afraid to let the old life die.
This is why clarity disappears in midlife transitions
Prolonged uncertainty is not a lack of insight—too many inner processes without structure create paralysis.
The New Chapter Mentorship exists as a response to this.
As a midlife midwife, I guide you through midlife change in a private 1:1 mentorship.
Over three months, I provide structure, reflection, and clear guidance to help you shape what this next chapter is meant to become.
So this transition does not remain a confusing in-between,
but becomes a strong, grounded beginning you actively build.
You're done doubting everything.
You're ready to shine.
To bring your true light into the world.
Without holding back anymore.
I'm Mieke Fleurackers—
mentor and midlife midwife
When my son died in 2019, my world turned to ashes.
Grief stripped me bare. There were no words.
Painting became my language.
Through this, I discovered alchemy—not mysticism, but a lived map. The ancient stages of dissolution and rebirth were exactly what I was moving through. This framework helped me trust that something new could emerge from the ashes.
Healing isn't about becoming whole again.
It's about transforming what remains.
This path gave me a second life. Still grieving. Still human. But different.
I realized the point was never to go back—
but to live fully from what was left.
Today, I guide women through midlife transitions. I help you gain clarity on who you're becoming, reclaim your inner authority, and rebuild a life that matches your new energy.
Years guiding women through transitions
Women guided through transformation
Founder of Spiritual Painters Sanctuary & co-founder of LaboArte
The New Chapter Mentorship
Three months to align your inner truth with your outer life
To stop fixing what doesn't fit and start creating what does.
I walk beside you through this passage—holding space as your old self dies and your new self emerges.
We'll work together to:
- •Reclaim your inner authority
- •Gain clarity on who you're becoming
- •Build a foundation that matches your expanded self
- •Trust yourself to make sharp, aligned decisions
I bring decades of guiding women through soul transitions, energy work, and my own passage through grief and rebirth.
Direction. Authority. Truth. Becoming whole on your own terms.
Three-month commitment
2121 EUR total
or 707 EUR per month
Available in English or Dutch
The transformation
What becomes possible when you walk through
Lost and directionless
Clear direction—you know who you're becoming
Can't trust yourself
Inner authority reclaimed
Inner and outer life misaligned
Deep alignment between truth and choices
Trying to fix the old
Building something new
Trapped in old roles
Free—living on your own terms
Faking, pleasing, pretending
Living wholeheartedly—authentically yourself
Awakening you can't ground
Awakening lived—spacious and soul-aligned
Afraid to be seen
Stepping forward—confident and clear
When you live aligned
The right people appear. Doors open. Creativity flows. Opportunities find you.
Not because life gets easier—
but because you're moving with it instead of against yourself.
The Map for Your Transformation
Seven stages—from who you were to who you're becoming
Transitions move through natural stages—like seasons.
This map shows you where you are, what's happening now, and what comes next.
Burning Away
What no longer fits falls away.
Allowing Change
You let yourself feel. Old patterns dissolve.
Discernment
Sort what's truly yours. Keep what matters, release the rest.
Coming Together
All parts of you align. Inner and outer. Old wisdom and new vision.
New Life Stirring
Something fresh emerges. Your authentic self takes shape.
Purification
Your truth becomes clear. You know who you are.
Embodiment
Your new life becomes real. You step fully into who you've become.
This is for you if
- You're ready to do the deep work
- You trust the symbolic and the sacred
- You want both spiritual depth and practical guidance
- You're willing to be honest with yourself
- You sense this is your time
This is not for you if
- You're looking for quick fixes or surface solutions
- You're not ready to face your shadows
- You want someone to do the work for you
- You're seeking entertainment, not transformation
Voices from the journey
"I came to Mieke at a crossroads. My old life didn't fit anymore, but I had no idea what came next."
"I'd been stuck in patterns I couldn't see—trying to make everyone happy, second-guessing every decision, exhausted from pretending I was fine."
"The structure Mieke created gave me space to let the old version of me die. She helped me see what needed to end and what was trying to be born."
"I moved from scattered and directionless to grounded and clear. I stopped trying to fix my old life and started building a new one that actually fits who I'm becoming."
"My biggest win? I trust myself now. I make decisions without asking everyone's permission first."
— Leen Crollet, artist...leencrollet.be
"Before working with Mieke, I felt trapped. Like I was living someone else's life."
"I couldn't say no. I couldn't choose. I was so busy managing everything that I'd completely lost myself."
"Mieke gave me permission to stop performing. She helped me understand what my body was trying to tell me and why nothing felt right anymore."
"Now I wake up knowing what I want. I've built a life that feels true—not perfect, but mine. I'm finally living wholeheartedly and in creative freedom instead of holding myself back."
"The transformation is real. Opportunities find me now because I'm aligned with who I actually am."
— Joke H. (@joke_illustratie)
Let's talk about your next chapter
This call is free.
If your life feels too small for who you're becoming, you need clarity.
This call helps you understand why you can't go back, why nothing old fits, and what your next chapter wants to open.
You'll leave with insight, direction, and confidence in your next move.
In this call, you'll gain:
Where you are
We'll name your transition and why the old no longer fits.
What's blocking you
You'll see what keeps you stuck.
Your next chapter
You'll understand what wants to open and your next move.
Your path forward
You'll know if the mentorship is right—or what else your next step might be.